Money, Sex and Status.
To make good money is exactly what means make your own, you fend for yourself every penny and everything you do is for you from you financially, humbly with intent and ambition for your future.
To have good sex in life is to be self-confident in our truth of who we and whom we are working to be as a being. Confidence is sexy.
To hold good status is simply to have those people that matter around us, respect and love us for who we are.
When we are lacking any of those three it isn’t fair for us to look to others to replace it.
As beings, we are unable to feel at the same capacity and value as another without understanding. If one has hustled and another has been given the understanding although admired are not equal.
I do not believe anybody wants to be taken for material or physical therefore we shouldn’t take those things from others.
To need anything that we are able to provide for ourselves is immature, no owes you anything.
I believe anybody would find someone that is respected, makes a living for themselves and is self-confident very attractive. I’d call that person a diamond.
I find that when my material needs are met on own my own, my maternal needs kick in. Meaning, I want to share my happiness with others, because I want others to be happy as well. When my environment is happy, I’m happy.
To satisfy my maternal needs to create another happiness. Takes respect from others of who I am. Rather I choose to create an idea that brings others joy, such as a convenience of some sort for example; energy, light, mobility, music. we choose to create an environment of our own that brings us the respect/love we deserve in some way our way.
It is an accomplishment for me to make others happy with what I am able to provide myself with ease, that others have trouble with. I believe it is not about what I give but what I get from giving that brings me a feeling of love and or respect.
While the possibilities of creating for our maternal needs is available through a physical material to keep others joyful to keep ourselves happy. Eventually, we will have to ask ourselves who are we trying to keep happy if there are no beings to keep happy. eventually pass and with no other being created to use the creations. What really is the point?
There is an obvious difference between the beings that we are such as a man or a woman. Factually both being men but one including a Womb.
As a woman, my maternal ability to create is not only within idea to the material but also able to bring a being to give my material creations to as well as to pass on my morals on how I have created these ideas. Essentially my truth. To do so I would need a seed.
Looking at reality it is a great hint also that mankind cannot bring beings into reality, to do so they would have to have a womb.
I would imagine I would have to accept a womb to plant my seed. Just like reality if we want to grow a strong plant we need good soil, soil that will help us grow our seeds strong. Because first creation is the idea; believing the idea is the first seed. When finding a suitable soil I would find one that respects my ideas, my seed. Once I respect the soil for helping me grow my idea then would I respect the soil enough to water and care for it to hold my ideas.
Just As a seed needs good soil to grow, soil needs to be watered. When the seed is watered the ideas can grow.
As a womb holder, I need to trust that the idea will grow when I water them because I not only hold the womb of the body but I have the womb of the mind which is the weird caring sense I get from my maternal abilities to care for others in preparation for caring for my womb.
I once read “mother is father what shinning is to diamond”
It reminds me of the perfect balance of respect for another. When both can respect/love each other for who they are as diamonds then it becomes easy to share the happiness we percept every day. And when becoming mother and father the mother shines on a fathers creation/idea as a being and together can grow one environment of perceived happiness, a tribe.
That would, of course, be if one was want to have a family but if two beings decide to be together and not use their wombs or their seeds physically. The growth of the idea would still have to reside together to stay together. For that to even start we have to respect ourselves before we can ask others to respect us.